"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well...that was weird..

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So chick calls me up a few mins ago. She's one of the lifeguard chicks I've been talking to recently.

Her: Hey Kirro. Its [insert her name here]
Me: Hey, wassup?
Her: Do we ever hangout outside the pool?
Me: Huh? No.
Her: Do we talk to each other on the phone?
Me: No.
Her: Do we text?
Me: *chuckling* no.
Her: Okay, just wanted to know.
Me: Why?
Her: Just wanted to know.
Me: Okay.
Her: Later
me: Uh huh.

So what was the purpose of this call? I have some ideas but I want to hear what the SS detectives think.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kirro said:
So chick calls me up a few mins ago. She's one of the lifeguard chicks I've been talking to recently.

Her: Hey Kirro. Its [insert her name here]
Me: Hey, wassup?
Her: Do we ever hangout outside the pool?
Me: Huh? No.
Her: Do we talk to each other on the phone?
Me: No.
Her: Do we text?
Me: *chuckling* no.
Her: Okay, just wanted to know.
Me: Why?
Her: Just wanted to know.
Me: Okay.
Her: Later
me: Uh huh.

So what was the purpose of this call? I have some ideas but I want to hear what the SS detectives think.
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You say you have been talking to her recently but how in depth? Seems she might have forgotten about who you were exactly. Maybe she wanted to know why she had your number in her phone? You might not have made a memorable impression on her mind.
 
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She's one of the lifeguard chicks I've been talking to recently.
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umm... No you don't.

Seems like you blew this opportunity already. If you get a number... Use it.
 
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lol that was one weird call. She probably had a hidden motive I mean why would she call you to interrogate you to kinda justify why she should have/not have your phone number? She would always just delete it from her contacts or not at all. It's not like she needs your permission to delete it.

My feeling (just my personal feeling) was just her way of c*ckblocking you. Her way of letting you know she is not really interested in you either as a lover or a friend outside of work.
 
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f283000 said:
lol that was one weird call. She probably had a hidden motive I mean why would she call you to interrogate you to kinda justify why she should have/not have your phone number? She would always just delete it from her contacts or not at all. It's not like she needs your permission to delete it.

My feeling (just my personal feeling) was just her way of c*ckblocking you. Her way of letting you know she is not really interested in you either as a lover or a friend outside of work.
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Well I'm not exactly enthusiastic to talk to her after a call like that. If she isn't interesting its cool with me, hi-bye status time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah. Sounds like she's being a d*ck.

What are you doing/saying to her that would cause such an angry response? Are you texting her a lot? There's gotta be a reason behind this.
 
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First thing that pops into my head is that she has a jealous boyfriend who was accusing her of something with you, so she called you with him listening in to show him there was nothing going on.
 
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Are you texting her a lot?
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No.

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First thing that pops into my head is that she has a jealous boyfriend who was accusing her of something with you, so she called you with him listening in to show him there was nothing going on.
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That came to my mind as well. No matter what the case is, I think its safe to say this prospect is finished.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like she was being an azzhole -- IDK, boyfriend theory could be correct too. If either is true, stay away man, she won't help your life.
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Yeah. This is usually the point at which I start sprinting for those hills. Unfortunately she works where I swim:nervous:

Hopefully a few fake smiles & hi is sufficient to keep things peaceful.
 
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You can always find a new place to swim...OR...just GO ON doing your thing like the conversation never happened. Give a nod, swim, get your **** done, get out of there. Or even just go when she's not working.
 
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