"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well...that was weird..

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So chick calls me up a few mins ago. She's one of the lifeguard chicks I've been talking to recently.

Her: Hey Kirro. Its [insert her name here]
Me: Hey, wassup?
Her: Do we ever hangout outside the pool?
Me: Huh? No.
Her: Do we talk to each other on the phone?
Me: No.
Her: Do we text?
Me: *chuckling* no.
Her: Okay, just wanted to know.
Me: Why?
Her: Just wanted to know.
Me: Okay.
Her: Later
me: Uh huh.

So what was the purpose of this call? I have some ideas but I want to hear what the SS detectives think.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kirro said:
So chick calls me up a few mins ago. She's one of the lifeguard chicks I've been talking to recently.

Her: Hey Kirro. Its [insert her name here]
Me: Hey, wassup?
Her: Do we ever hangout outside the pool?
Me: Huh? No.
Her: Do we talk to each other on the phone?
Me: No.
Her: Do we text?
Me: *chuckling* no.
Her: Okay, just wanted to know.
Me: Why?
Her: Just wanted to know.
Me: Okay.
Her: Later
me: Uh huh.

So what was the purpose of this call? I have some ideas but I want to hear what the SS detectives think.
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You say you have been talking to her recently but how in depth? Seems she might have forgotten about who you were exactly. Maybe she wanted to know why she had your number in her phone? You might not have made a memorable impression on her mind.
 
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She's one of the lifeguard chicks I've been talking to recently.
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umm... No you don't.

Seems like you blew this opportunity already. If you get a number... Use it.
 
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lol that was one weird call. She probably had a hidden motive I mean why would she call you to interrogate you to kinda justify why she should have/not have your phone number? She would always just delete it from her contacts or not at all. It's not like she needs your permission to delete it.

My feeling (just my personal feeling) was just her way of c*ckblocking you. Her way of letting you know she is not really interested in you either as a lover or a friend outside of work.
 
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f283000 said:
lol that was one weird call. She probably had a hidden motive I mean why would she call you to interrogate you to kinda justify why she should have/not have your phone number? She would always just delete it from her contacts or not at all. It's not like she needs your permission to delete it.

My feeling (just my personal feeling) was just her way of c*ckblocking you. Her way of letting you know she is not really interested in you either as a lover or a friend outside of work.
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Well I'm not exactly enthusiastic to talk to her after a call like that. If she isn't interesting its cool with me, hi-bye status time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah. Sounds like she's being a d*ck.

What are you doing/saying to her that would cause such an angry response? Are you texting her a lot? There's gotta be a reason behind this.
 
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First thing that pops into my head is that she has a jealous boyfriend who was accusing her of something with you, so she called you with him listening in to show him there was nothing going on.
 
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Are you texting her a lot?
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No.

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First thing that pops into my head is that she has a jealous boyfriend who was accusing her of something with you, so she called you with him listening in to show him there was nothing going on.
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That came to my mind as well. No matter what the case is, I think its safe to say this prospect is finished.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Sounds like she was being an azzhole -- IDK, boyfriend theory could be correct too. If either is true, stay away man, she won't help your life.
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Yeah. This is usually the point at which I start sprinting for those hills. Unfortunately she works where I swim:nervous:

Hopefully a few fake smiles & hi is sufficient to keep things peaceful.
 
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You can always find a new place to swim...OR...just GO ON doing your thing like the conversation never happened. Give a nod, swim, get your **** done, get out of there. Or even just go when she's not working.
 
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