"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Well it has finally Happened......

2Rocky

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I’m with you on the marriage thing. I’m gunshy at best if not downright adverse to marriage but like you I have assets to worry about and responsibilities to my ex spouse financially. No way I want a new partner mucking that up. It’s a different landscape in your 50s to be sure...having already done the whole kid thing.

It never occurred to me to marry for money. That always seemed to be a sell out. So I pick first on passion, which isn’t perfect but desire is never an issue, lol.

Sorry it ran it’s course...

NEXT!
Amen to the Bolded Part.

Wonder if anyone can speak to an UNmarriage. An exclusive LTR where the couple is in appearances married but not married according to the governing body...No marriage license. Separate finances.

I can see a problem with Medical and inheritance issues if there is no license. FWIW a Civil union has all the Community property implications of a marriage.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Amen to the Bolded Part.

Wonder if anyone can speak to an UNmarriage. An exclusive LTR where the couple is in appearances married but not married according to the governing body...No marriage license. Separate finances.

I can see a problem with Medical and inheritance issues if there is no license. FWIW a Civil union has all the Community property implications of a marriage.
You create a partnership or a trust if that’s the intent. In either of those structures you have great flexibility to assign assets and responsibilities. You would not be considered next of kin, but power of attorney for healthcare and other documents can cover much of that.

Marriage has its advantages in the older age group. Amongst my peers we are at an age where people get sick, they die, they require a caregiver...the can lose their faculties. At my age one deals with aging parents and so you get a front row seat to what poor end of life planning looks like. Often it ain’t pretty.

But the 50s is on the one hand like the fun of the 20s but without the risk of pregnancy and with money. That part rocks. But it’s also that you start to lose people around you. I know widows and widowers now...that’s an anomaly in the 20s. Not so at my age.

In some ways I’m actually having more fun than ever. But I also choose to be lively and surround myself with lively people. Boredom is for the boring.

Yawn.

Cheers
 

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What kind of marriage?

1. the legal government enslavement kind, that's designed to rob you of half your wealth.

or

2. the illegal kind, which disregards any outside rules and regulations.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like a bad deal unless you are getting some sort of equity in the house. Then again, you would not have any type of house payment of your own so theoretically you might come out ahead financially.
You can get very creative on terms of gaining property ownership, for example if you maintain a property for a full year, you get to own it in certain places, this is a fairly common law as far as I know.

Also, this guy comes to mind
 
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