"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well I got dumped... AGAIN!

RangerMIke

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If this one is really "stunned" and "shocked" at your rejection of a relationship, she will be back. She will reach out when she realizes that you WONT. However at this point she will only stick around if she is happy being a plate. You know it, she knows it. If and when she reaches out, it wont last long. Some beta will gladly become a doormat for her as she still longs to be with a man that has the balls to tell her "no".
Yep... it's already started.... reaching out. It's so freaking predictable. The next step is going to be her parading her new BF in front of me... like I freaking give a fvck. All women are the same.

What really bothers me abut all this are other men that line up behind women to criticize me for the way I live. I don't hide anything from women, I don't lie or give them false hope... they know exactly what they are getting into with me. But it is the guy friends of women, that think they need to jump to the defense of females, that really p!ss me off. I am supposed to be a 'bad man' who just 'uses women'. Oh well... I guess it's like being the only one that will not get in the stupid dancing conga line.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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