"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well I got dumped... AGAIN!

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If this one is really "stunned" and "shocked" at your rejection of a relationship, she will be back. She will reach out when she realizes that you WONT. However at this point she will only stick around if she is happy being a plate. You know it, she knows it. If and when she reaches out, it wont last long. Some beta will gladly become a doormat for her as she still longs to be with a man that has the balls to tell her "no".
Yep... it's already started.... reaching out. It's so freaking predictable. The next step is going to be her parading her new BF in front of me... like I freaking give a fvck. All women are the same.

What really bothers me abut all this are other men that line up behind women to criticize me for the way I live. I don't hide anything from women, I don't lie or give them false hope... they know exactly what they are getting into with me. But it is the guy friends of women, that think they need to jump to the defense of females, that really p!ss me off. I am supposed to be a 'bad man' who just 'uses women'. Oh well... I guess it's like being the only one that will not get in the stupid dancing conga line.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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