Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yea... of course. These things are a royal pain in the @ss. It's a full day process, of back and forth. But you have to stick to your guns. I really liked this one, freaking hot as hell, smoking bod, best BJs I've ever had. Smart, we had a lot in common, but I am not going to get tied down with anyone.
She'll be back.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And what does that tell you about the majority of men? No wonder we have the problems we do. Attractive women don't handle rejection very well, and its not something they have to deal with very often in life. They are so accustomed to getting their way.
I like variety, and I really don't see any point in promising exclusivity. If I don't feel like dating other women I won't, why the fvck should I have to 'promise' that I won't. The first thing I say to women that want me to commit to a relationship is, "I have a better idea, why don't you be such an awesome chick that I don't want to see other women."
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Or in turn dig her, adapt your mindset, and enjoy the ride.
I've heard that one before. If that attitude had worked for any of those guys, one of them would still have her. But she didn't have enough respect for them to keep wanting them herself.
No problem with that. As long as you are remaining true to yourself and desire, and not acting out of fear spawn by previously negative experience(s).
This would be a very arrogant thing to actually say to a woman you are involved with...imo.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i just saw your response to this question..nvrmind
A beta will cry that the relationship is over after only 3 months and claim there will never be another like her. No more awesome BJ's, etc.
The only way a DJ can walk away with a grin is to not get emotionally invested. This might sound cold, but the way most women try and play men today and considering what's at stake, it's best to keep it friendly and full of secks. Once that goes sour or gets old, time to next and move on. Most women are way too fvcked up today to play it any other way in my opinion.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
