"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well I broke her up with her bf.....

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Ben15

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Well guys, Im not sure if you remember my last post, but there was this HB9 who was after me for awhile, but she had a bf. We started talking and magically she broke up with her bf lol. Well, since then we met up at her house for a movie, which was alright, but her whole freakin family kept coming in and "checkin" on us, so nothing really went down. Well, after the movie she wanted to go for a late night walk so we did and it was great. We had some great convos, I made her laugh and got some kino in. This was the first time we really were alone together so I didn't want to get crazy, so I gave her a nice long hug and that was the night. She asked me to go out twice, once to the amusement park and the other to a movie with her and her friend, but I had work and couldn't go. She talks to me all the time, but I think she is trying to test me. She went out with some other guys the last couple nights, but I have just played it cool and put off the vibe that "your single, you can do what you want". What should my next move be? Should I ask her out somewhere? Lately I have been trying to not talk to her as much, and it seems to be working. But she seems to be doing the same thing as well. Any suggestions/advice would be great. Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dutchy

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Don´t wait too long, otherwise she will think you are not interested in her.

If you want to ask her on a date, make it a "private party" at your place or somewhere where you can be alone with her. Rent a movie, cook dinner, give her a massage, the main point is that there is just the two of you. In the last dates you had a anoying family and a three person date, they make it hard to seduce her. With just the two of you she will pay all of her attention to you instead to others.

Don't wait too long because since she is dating other guys too, one of those guys may get more closely to her, and she will be less thinking of you.

Hope this helps

Greetz from Holland
 
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oakraiderz2

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Hang out. Kiss her.
 
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