"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well I broke her up with her bf.....

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Ben15

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Well guys, Im not sure if you remember my last post, but there was this HB9 who was after me for awhile, but she had a bf. We started talking and magically she broke up with her bf lol. Well, since then we met up at her house for a movie, which was alright, but her whole freakin family kept coming in and "checkin" on us, so nothing really went down. Well, after the movie she wanted to go for a late night walk so we did and it was great. We had some great convos, I made her laugh and got some kino in. This was the first time we really were alone together so I didn't want to get crazy, so I gave her a nice long hug and that was the night. She asked me to go out twice, once to the amusement park and the other to a movie with her and her friend, but I had work and couldn't go. She talks to me all the time, but I think she is trying to test me. She went out with some other guys the last couple nights, but I have just played it cool and put off the vibe that "your single, you can do what you want". What should my next move be? Should I ask her out somewhere? Lately I have been trying to not talk to her as much, and it seems to be working. But she seems to be doing the same thing as well. Any suggestions/advice would be great. Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don´t wait too long, otherwise she will think you are not interested in her.

If you want to ask her on a date, make it a "private party" at your place or somewhere where you can be alone with her. Rent a movie, cook dinner, give her a massage, the main point is that there is just the two of you. In the last dates you had a anoying family and a three person date, they make it hard to seduce her. With just the two of you she will pay all of her attention to you instead to others.

Don't wait too long because since she is dating other guys too, one of those guys may get more closely to her, and she will be less thinking of you.

Hope this helps

Greetz from Holland
 
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oakraiderz2

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Hang out. Kiss her.
 
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