"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well I broke her up with her bf.....

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Well guys, Im not sure if you remember my last post, but there was this HB9 who was after me for awhile, but she had a bf. We started talking and magically she broke up with her bf lol. Well, since then we met up at her house for a movie, which was alright, but her whole freakin family kept coming in and "checkin" on us, so nothing really went down. Well, after the movie she wanted to go for a late night walk so we did and it was great. We had some great convos, I made her laugh and got some kino in. This was the first time we really were alone together so I didn't want to get crazy, so I gave her a nice long hug and that was the night. She asked me to go out twice, once to the amusement park and the other to a movie with her and her friend, but I had work and couldn't go. She talks to me all the time, but I think she is trying to test me. She went out with some other guys the last couple nights, but I have just played it cool and put off the vibe that "your single, you can do what you want". What should my next move be? Should I ask her out somewhere? Lately I have been trying to not talk to her as much, and it seems to be working. But she seems to be doing the same thing as well. Any suggestions/advice would be great. Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don´t wait too long, otherwise she will think you are not interested in her.

If you want to ask her on a date, make it a "private party" at your place or somewhere where you can be alone with her. Rent a movie, cook dinner, give her a massage, the main point is that there is just the two of you. In the last dates you had a anoying family and a three person date, they make it hard to seduce her. With just the two of you she will pay all of her attention to you instead to others.

Don't wait too long because since she is dating other guys too, one of those guys may get more closely to her, and she will be less thinking of you.

Hope this helps

Greetz from Holland
 
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oakraiderz2

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Hang out. Kiss her.
 
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