"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well guys I think I've reached that point..

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Stingers

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I've reached that point to where everything is easy, sosuave has given me the guidelines to change my life and i went out and TOOK CHARGE. (advice is just advice until you can put it to use.. thats alot of peoples problem here.) in some ways yes this has made my life harder but it made it so much better. I was a chump trying my hardest to fit in. It wasn't until sophomore year that I found out who I really was. I can get 8/10 girls I want, I am the one doing the friend zoning, I am immune to those butterflies in any situation even when approaching. Friday I had a date with this girl I met on fb that goes to my school i talk to her but not too much. It was so last minute she said I'm trying to think of something to do tonight, I said how about me and you go see a movie, half way in I'm fingering her and im saying lets go somewhere private and we **** in her car. Everything is routine now. It's almost automatic, **** tests Are easy to read, and talking to girls is so simple. I literally have more girls than I can handle, I never thought I would be like this. it's a feeling of accomplishment yet dismay At the same time. I almost get bored somedays yet on other days I feel king. Just some thoughts that have been itching at me.. :) have you guys ever reached this point before and if so how did you guys feel?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First, i'd like to just say good for you, buddy. From what you described you have reached a point that many man dream of reaching. My advice: ride the hot streak as long as you can. You have momentum, which gives you confidence, and that's probably the most important factor when approaching new women. Continue to meet not chicks, but don't force anything, and be patient. Whatever happens don't get greedy. When greed takes over is when you will being to fall.

I've reached that point a couple times in my life. When you go out/walk in a room and you feel like every girl is undressing you with their eyes; It's a good feeling. One time I was able to use that momentum to sleep with 2 new chicks in one day...POST college.
 
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Haha post college that's impressive. I think your right on with the greed comment. I never thought of that before, I need to watch it on that one haha thanks for the reply
 
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