"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well guys I think I've reached that point..

Stingers

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I've reached that point to where everything is easy, sosuave has given me the guidelines to change my life and i went out and TOOK CHARGE. (advice is just advice until you can put it to use.. thats alot of peoples problem here.) in some ways yes this has made my life harder but it made it so much better. I was a chump trying my hardest to fit in. It wasn't until sophomore year that I found out who I really was. I can get 8/10 girls I want, I am the one doing the friend zoning, I am immune to those butterflies in any situation even when approaching. Friday I had a date with this girl I met on fb that goes to my school i talk to her but not too much. It was so last minute she said I'm trying to think of something to do tonight, I said how about me and you go see a movie, half way in I'm fingering her and im saying lets go somewhere private and we **** in her car. Everything is routine now. It's almost automatic, **** tests Are easy to read, and talking to girls is so simple. I literally have more girls than I can handle, I never thought I would be like this. it's a feeling of accomplishment yet dismay At the same time. I almost get bored somedays yet on other days I feel king. Just some thoughts that have been itching at me.. :) have you guys ever reached this point before and if so how did you guys feel?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First, i'd like to just say good for you, buddy. From what you described you have reached a point that many man dream of reaching. My advice: ride the hot streak as long as you can. You have momentum, which gives you confidence, and that's probably the most important factor when approaching new women. Continue to meet not chicks, but don't force anything, and be patient. Whatever happens don't get greedy. When greed takes over is when you will being to fall.

I've reached that point a couple times in my life. When you go out/walk in a room and you feel like every girl is undressing you with their eyes; It's a good feeling. One time I was able to use that momentum to sleep with 2 new chicks in one day...POST college.
 

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Haha post college that's impressive. I think your right on with the greed comment. I never thought of that before, I need to watch it on that one haha thanks for the reply
 
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