"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well guys I think I've reached that point..

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I've reached that point to where everything is easy, sosuave has given me the guidelines to change my life and i went out and TOOK CHARGE. (advice is just advice until you can put it to use.. thats alot of peoples problem here.) in some ways yes this has made my life harder but it made it so much better. I was a chump trying my hardest to fit in. It wasn't until sophomore year that I found out who I really was. I can get 8/10 girls I want, I am the one doing the friend zoning, I am immune to those butterflies in any situation even when approaching. Friday I had a date with this girl I met on fb that goes to my school i talk to her but not too much. It was so last minute she said I'm trying to think of something to do tonight, I said how about me and you go see a movie, half way in I'm fingering her and im saying lets go somewhere private and we **** in her car. Everything is routine now. It's almost automatic, **** tests Are easy to read, and talking to girls is so simple. I literally have more girls than I can handle, I never thought I would be like this. it's a feeling of accomplishment yet dismay At the same time. I almost get bored somedays yet on other days I feel king. Just some thoughts that have been itching at me.. :) have you guys ever reached this point before and if so how did you guys feel?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First, i'd like to just say good for you, buddy. From what you described you have reached a point that many man dream of reaching. My advice: ride the hot streak as long as you can. You have momentum, which gives you confidence, and that's probably the most important factor when approaching new women. Continue to meet not chicks, but don't force anything, and be patient. Whatever happens don't get greedy. When greed takes over is when you will being to fall.

I've reached that point a couple times in my life. When you go out/walk in a room and you feel like every girl is undressing you with their eyes; It's a good feeling. One time I was able to use that momentum to sleep with 2 new chicks in one day...POST college.
 
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Haha post college that's impressive. I think your right on with the greed comment. I never thought of that before, I need to watch it on that one haha thanks for the reply
 
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