"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Weird to go to club/bar alone?

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how many of you go alone?

Also what if u don't dance, drink and smoke? What else is there to do instead of standing looking like a snowman?:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Talk with the ladies. That is what you should do. If they ask you why you are out alone tell them that you don't need your friends to hold your hand when you want to go out.
 
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If you go to the club alone, do it right and act like you own the friggin place.
 
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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
If you go to the club alone, do it right and act like you own the friggin place.
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Hey.. Haha, that happened once, I was alone hitting on this saleslady selling me oakleys.. Got her #.. etc.. When 2 young couple came in and asked if I owned the store.. Lol.. :D
 
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Lately I haven't but I used to hit the clubs alone anywhere from 3-5 times a week. Yeah, that much. I got into dancing and would go there and dance all night. Sometimes I still do it when the mood strikes me. It definitely felt weird at first but after the first few times it became normal and extremely enjoyable. I'd look forward to it every day.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you go on your own then walk in with confidence, chat 2 some honeys n find a dancing partner........ women love dancing!!

Just dont stand there like a lemon and do nothing cos u will look pretty sad
 
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