"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Weird to go to club/bar alone?

david90

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how many of you go alone?

Also what if u don't dance, drink and smoke? What else is there to do instead of standing looking like a snowman?:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fatality

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Talk with the ladies. That is what you should do. If they ask you why you are out alone tell them that you don't need your friends to hold your hand when you want to go out.
 

So pimp its scary

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If you go to the club alone, do it right and act like you own the friggin place.
 

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
If you go to the club alone, do it right and act like you own the friggin place.
Hey.. Haha, that happened once, I was alone hitting on this saleslady selling me oakleys.. Got her #.. etc.. When 2 young couple came in and asked if I owned the store.. Lol.. :D
 

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Lately I haven't but I used to hit the clubs alone anywhere from 3-5 times a week. Yeah, that much. I got into dancing and would go there and dance all night. Sometimes I still do it when the mood strikes me. It definitely felt weird at first but after the first few times it became normal and extremely enjoyable. I'd look forward to it every day.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ Suave

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If you go on your own then walk in with confidence, chat 2 some honeys n find a dancing partner........ women love dancing!!

Just dont stand there like a lemon and do nothing cos u will look pretty sad
 
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