Same concept of this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210776. What are some odd traits, body parts, behaviors, etc. that you find unattractive in women.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Weird things you find unattractive in women
- Thread starter JoeMarron
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Who Dares Win
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X shaped legs, not a deal braker but definitely a turn off.
Any challenging or aggressive behaviour is a deal braker.
Any challenging or aggressive behaviour is a deal braker.
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Valley girl speech or "snotty" sounding speech. It's not that they embody those types of personalities, but it's just the way they learned to talk. Very unattractive.
Ugly feet, as in they've taken a walk through a minefield.
Hipster glasses. Making yourself intentionally ugly is a turn-off
Large, dark mole(s) on the face. If it's not sprouting hair, it will in the near future.
Although it's not a deal breaker, I'm not a fan of attached earlobes. Detached are nicer to nibble on.
Ugly feet, as in they've taken a walk through a minefield.
Hipster glasses. Making yourself intentionally ugly is a turn-off
Large, dark mole(s) on the face. If it's not sprouting hair, it will in the near future.
Although it's not a deal breaker, I'm not a fan of attached earlobes. Detached are nicer to nibble on.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Man on Fire
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I'm sure I'll be called a f@g for saying this but yoga pants... Every fvcking girl wears yoga pants every single day. The novelty has worn off. I'm sick of them. Especially when they are wearing boots with them. It looks dumb and lazy.
Atom Smasher
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Ugly feet, ugly nails. Unkempt hands.
"Man hands"... YUCK!!
Fat.
Cankles
Untidy hair
Let's throw hemorrhoids in there.
White discharge
Overly hairy arms
Age spots on hands
Oily face
Face plastered over with makeup
Messiness
Stains on clothing
"Man hands"... YUCK!!
Fat.
Cankles
Untidy hair
Let's throw hemorrhoids in there.
White discharge
Overly hairy arms
Age spots on hands
Oily face
Face plastered over with makeup
Messiness
Stains on clothing
Atom Smasher
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:crackup:Desdinova said:
Colossus
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Bad hair (thick, unkempt, unrefined)
Bad breath!!....maybe #1
Ugg boots
Smelly pvssy (some girls just have bad chemistry down there)
Ditto on the white discharge---usually normal at times of the month but still yuck
Long, bony toes
Man hands
Wide waists
Drunkenness
Smoking---instant and permanent turn off
Bad breath!!....maybe #1
Ugg boots
Smelly pvssy (some girls just have bad chemistry down there)
Ditto on the white discharge---usually normal at times of the month but still yuck
Long, bony toes
Man hands
Wide waists
Drunkenness
Smoking---instant and permanent turn off
Night-hawk
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Skinny lips.
Unattended hairiness.
Dark lipsticks.
Lip piercings.
Boyish.
Hyper-selfies taking (Look at mee!).
Girls who only listen to rap music (hip-hoppers).
Girls who don't read or take interest in fine literature outside of fem. herd lit.
A flock of orbiting guy friends. It's not called the Flying V for nothing. Girls choreograph their following.
Club or bar enthusiasts.
...to name some.
Unattended hairiness.
Dark lipsticks.
Lip piercings.
Boyish.
Hyper-selfies taking (Look at mee!).
Girls who only listen to rap music (hip-hoppers).
Girls who don't read or take interest in fine literature outside of fem. herd lit.
A flock of orbiting guy friends. It's not called the Flying V for nothing. Girls choreograph their following.
Club or bar enthusiasts.
...to name some.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Dude I DESPISE those on women too. It's lazy as sh*t and many girls wear them to cover up their chubbiness. I never liked them; they reminded me of when girls on college campuses wore pajamas to class.Man on Fire said:
In most cases it's mainly their diet, and also hygiene.Colossus said:
Bible_Belt
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I really hate being around anyone who is clipping their toe nails.
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Bad hair
Jacked up teeth
Lip, nose, and eyebrow piercings
Too much makeup
Bad hair dye job
Fatties who dress like they are thin
Fatties in general
Smokers (being a former smoker there's no way I'd date one now)
Club girls (look at me...everyone wants to fvck me)
For some reason I'm not into tall, thin women (over 5'8")
Super skinny (no t*ts, no a$$)
Excessive tattoos
Snarky attitute
Man hands
Drawn on eyebrows or plucked razor thin
Jacked up teeth
Lip, nose, and eyebrow piercings
Too much makeup
Bad hair dye job
Fatties who dress like they are thin
Fatties in general
Smokers (being a former smoker there's no way I'd date one now)
Club girls (look at me...everyone wants to fvck me)
For some reason I'm not into tall, thin women (over 5'8")
Super skinny (no t*ts, no a$$)
Excessive tattoos
Snarky attitute
Man hands
Drawn on eyebrows or plucked razor thin
Lol maturity is a turnoff? Interesting. I agree with most of these but I'll add a few more.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Most black chicks with relaxed hair. This
http://www.blackhairstylescuts.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/long-natural-hair-black-women.jpg
will always look better than this
http://www.carefair.com/data/uploads/shutterstock_2756800_l.jpg
Unnatural hair colors
T!ts that are too far apart
Well defined muscles
Earrings that are so heavy the earlobes stretch
Pants suits
jafyk
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Men, I hate this thread, lol. It would appear that I hate so many things about women. Phew here goes.
1. Bad hygiene (both personal and surroundings)
2. Women who are crass, boring and overly materialistic
3. Overly emotional or always pretending not to be.
4. Tackiness: wearing pajamas to public places (grocery store, classrooms etc), wearing yoga pants outside the gym or when not going for jogging. Those things hug their crotch. I went to see a high school play and the girls in the play were pretty much wearing that. Last Sunday at church a girl was wearing one of those too. Obnoxious behavior or trying to do the disgusting things than men do. Smoking, getting thrashed and puking and falling all over.
5. Girls who talk like whiny little girls (perhaps this is what they call the valley girls)
6. Applying too much make up. Any piercing besides ear lobes and navel. I saw a woman with a piercing just below her knee. WTF?
7. Very Obvious hair dying.
8. Women who always want to come around to enjoy the benefits but not contribute anything (esp gold diggers)
9. Women who can't learn practical things like cooking or changing a tire.
10. Bigger upper region and skinny legs (disproportionate)
1. Bad hygiene (both personal and surroundings)
2. Women who are crass, boring and overly materialistic
3. Overly emotional or always pretending not to be.
4. Tackiness: wearing pajamas to public places (grocery store, classrooms etc), wearing yoga pants outside the gym or when not going for jogging. Those things hug their crotch. I went to see a high school play and the girls in the play were pretty much wearing that. Last Sunday at church a girl was wearing one of those too. Obnoxious behavior or trying to do the disgusting things than men do. Smoking, getting thrashed and puking and falling all over.
5. Girls who talk like whiny little girls (perhaps this is what they call the valley girls)
6. Applying too much make up. Any piercing besides ear lobes and navel. I saw a woman with a piercing just below her knee. WTF?
7. Very Obvious hair dying.
8. Women who always want to come around to enjoy the benefits but not contribute anything (esp gold diggers)
9. Women who can't learn practical things like cooking or changing a tire.
10. Bigger upper region and skinny legs (disproportionate)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Being raised in America.
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Goddamnit Malice... beat me to it.
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Edit: wrong thread
Vantagepoint34
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Vampires
I judge a girl big time on her ex or who she's banged that I know about. If I feel that the girl is say a 8 and dated a 6 or banged a 6 or a 5, you know someone way below their level of what they can get, it's an instant turnoff. I'm also getting to where I'm getting turned off by women with kids.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.