"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Weird things you find unattractive in women

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who Dares Win

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X shaped legs, not a deal braker but definitely a turn off.

Any challenging or aggressive behaviour is a deal braker.
 

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For me, it's messiness and laziness. But if she lives separate from me it's fine, I just don't want to deal with it in my personal living area.
 

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Valley girl speech or "snotty" sounding speech. It's not that they embody those types of personalities, but it's just the way they learned to talk. Very unattractive.

Ugly feet, as in they've taken a walk through a minefield.

Hipster glasses. Making yourself intentionally ugly is a turn-off

Large, dark mole(s) on the face. If it's not sprouting hair, it will in the near future.

Although it's not a deal breaker, I'm not a fan of attached earlobes. Detached are nicer to nibble on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm sure I'll be called a f@g for saying this but yoga pants... Every fvcking girl wears yoga pants every single day. The novelty has worn off. I'm sick of them. Especially when they are wearing boots with them. It looks dumb and lazy.
 

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Ugly feet, ugly nails. Unkempt hands.

"Man hands"... YUCK!!

Fat.

Cankles

Untidy hair

Let's throw hemorrhoids in there.

White discharge

Overly hairy arms

Age spots on hands

Oily face

Face plastered over with makeup

Messiness

Stains on clothing
 

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Bad hair (thick, unkempt, unrefined)

Bad breath!!....maybe #1

Ugg boots

Smelly pvssy (some girls just have bad chemistry down there)

Ditto on the white discharge---usually normal at times of the month but still yuck

Long, bony toes

Man hands

Wide waists

Drunkenness

Smoking---instant and permanent turn off
 

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Skinny lips.

Unattended hairiness.

Dark lipsticks.

Lip piercings.

Boyish.

Hyper-selfies taking (Look at mee!).

Girls who only listen to rap music (hip-hoppers).

Girls who don't read or take interest in fine literature outside of fem. herd lit.

A flock of orbiting guy friends. It's not called the Flying V for nothing. Girls choreograph their following.

Club or bar enthusiasts.

...to name some.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Man on Fire said:
I'm sure I'll be called a f@g for saying this but yoga pants... Every fvcking girl wears yoga pants every single day. The novelty has worn off. I'm sick of them. Especially when they are wearing boots with them. It looks dumb and lazy.
Dude I DESPISE those on women too. It's lazy as sh*t and many girls wear them to cover up their chubbiness. I never liked them; they reminded me of when girls on college campuses wore pajamas to class.

Colossus said:
Smelly pvssy (some girls just have bad chemistry down there
In most cases it's mainly their diet, and also hygiene.
 

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Bad hair
Jacked up teeth
Lip, nose, and eyebrow piercings
Too much makeup
Bad hair dye job
Fatties who dress like they are thin
Fatties in general
Smokers (being a former smoker there's no way I'd date one now)
Club girls (look at me...everyone wants to fvck me)
For some reason I'm not into tall, thin women (over 5'8")
Super skinny (no t*ts, no a$$)
Excessive tattoos
Snarky attitute
Man hands
Drawn on eyebrows or plucked razor thin
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Lol maturity is a turnoff? Interesting. I agree with most of these but I'll add a few more.

Most black chicks with relaxed hair. This
http://www.blackhairstylescuts.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/long-natural-hair-black-women.jpg

will always look better than this
http://www.carefair.com/data/uploads/shutterstock_2756800_l.jpg

Unnatural hair colors
T!ts that are too far apart
Well defined muscles
Earrings that are so heavy the earlobes stretch
Pants suits
 

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Men, I hate this thread, lol. It would appear that I hate so many things about women. Phew here goes.

1. Bad hygiene (both personal and surroundings)
2. Women who are crass, boring and overly materialistic
3. Overly emotional or always pretending not to be.
4. Tackiness: wearing pajamas to public places (grocery store, classrooms etc), wearing yoga pants outside the gym or when not going for jogging. Those things hug their crotch. I went to see a high school play and the girls in the play were pretty much wearing that. Last Sunday at church a girl was wearing one of those too. Obnoxious behavior or trying to do the disgusting things than men do. Smoking, getting thrashed and puking and falling all over.
5. Girls who talk like whiny little girls (perhaps this is what they call the valley girls)
6. Applying too much make up. Any piercing besides ear lobes and navel. I saw a woman with a piercing just below her knee. WTF?
7. Very Obvious hair dying.
8. Women who always want to come around to enjoy the benefits but not contribute anything (esp gold diggers)
9. Women who can't learn practical things like cooking or changing a tire.
10. Bigger upper region and skinny legs (disproportionate)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Edit: wrong thread
 

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I judge a girl big time on her ex or who she's banged that I know about. If I feel that the girl is say a 8 and dated a 6 or banged a 6 or a 5, you know someone way below their level of what they can get, it's an instant turnoff. I'm also getting to where I'm getting turned off by women with kids.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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