"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Weird things you find unattractive in women

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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X shaped legs, not a deal braker but definitely a turn off.

Any challenging or aggressive behaviour is a deal braker.
 

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For me, it's messiness and laziness. But if she lives separate from me it's fine, I just don't want to deal with it in my personal living area.
 

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Valley girl speech or "snotty" sounding speech. It's not that they embody those types of personalities, but it's just the way they learned to talk. Very unattractive.

Ugly feet, as in they've taken a walk through a minefield.

Hipster glasses. Making yourself intentionally ugly is a turn-off

Large, dark mole(s) on the face. If it's not sprouting hair, it will in the near future.

Although it's not a deal breaker, I'm not a fan of attached earlobes. Detached are nicer to nibble on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm sure I'll be called a f@g for saying this but yoga pants... Every fvcking girl wears yoga pants every single day. The novelty has worn off. I'm sick of them. Especially when they are wearing boots with them. It looks dumb and lazy.
 

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Ugly feet, ugly nails. Unkempt hands.

"Man hands"... YUCK!!

Fat.

Cankles

Untidy hair

Let's throw hemorrhoids in there.

White discharge

Overly hairy arms

Age spots on hands

Oily face

Face plastered over with makeup

Messiness

Stains on clothing
 

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Bad hair (thick, unkempt, unrefined)

Bad breath!!....maybe #1

Ugg boots

Smelly pvssy (some girls just have bad chemistry down there)

Ditto on the white discharge---usually normal at times of the month but still yuck

Long, bony toes

Man hands

Wide waists

Drunkenness

Smoking---instant and permanent turn off
 

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Skinny lips.

Unattended hairiness.

Dark lipsticks.

Lip piercings.

Boyish.

Hyper-selfies taking (Look at mee!).

Girls who only listen to rap music (hip-hoppers).

Girls who don't read or take interest in fine literature outside of fem. herd lit.

A flock of orbiting guy friends. It's not called the Flying V for nothing. Girls choreograph their following.

Club or bar enthusiasts.

...to name some.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vice

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Man on Fire said:
I'm sure I'll be called a f@g for saying this but yoga pants... Every fvcking girl wears yoga pants every single day. The novelty has worn off. I'm sick of them. Especially when they are wearing boots with them. It looks dumb and lazy.
Dude I DESPISE those on women too. It's lazy as sh*t and many girls wear them to cover up their chubbiness. I never liked them; they reminded me of when girls on college campuses wore pajamas to class.

Colossus said:
Smelly pvssy (some girls just have bad chemistry down there
In most cases it's mainly their diet, and also hygiene.
 

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Bad hair
Jacked up teeth
Lip, nose, and eyebrow piercings
Too much makeup
Bad hair dye job
Fatties who dress like they are thin
Fatties in general
Smokers (being a former smoker there's no way I'd date one now)
Club girls (look at me...everyone wants to fvck me)
For some reason I'm not into tall, thin women (over 5'8")
Super skinny (no t*ts, no a$$)
Excessive tattoos
Snarky attitute
Man hands
Drawn on eyebrows or plucked razor thin
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Lol maturity is a turnoff? Interesting. I agree with most of these but I'll add a few more.

Most black chicks with relaxed hair. This
http://www.blackhairstylescuts.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/long-natural-hair-black-women.jpg

will always look better than this
http://www.carefair.com/data/uploads/shutterstock_2756800_l.jpg

Unnatural hair colors
T!ts that are too far apart
Well defined muscles
Earrings that are so heavy the earlobes stretch
Pants suits
 

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Men, I hate this thread, lol. It would appear that I hate so many things about women. Phew here goes.

1. Bad hygiene (both personal and surroundings)
2. Women who are crass, boring and overly materialistic
3. Overly emotional or always pretending not to be.
4. Tackiness: wearing pajamas to public places (grocery store, classrooms etc), wearing yoga pants outside the gym or when not going for jogging. Those things hug their crotch. I went to see a high school play and the girls in the play were pretty much wearing that. Last Sunday at church a girl was wearing one of those too. Obnoxious behavior or trying to do the disgusting things than men do. Smoking, getting thrashed and puking and falling all over.
5. Girls who talk like whiny little girls (perhaps this is what they call the valley girls)
6. Applying too much make up. Any piercing besides ear lobes and navel. I saw a woman with a piercing just below her knee. WTF?
7. Very Obvious hair dying.
8. Women who always want to come around to enjoy the benefits but not contribute anything (esp gold diggers)
9. Women who can't learn practical things like cooking or changing a tire.
10. Bigger upper region and skinny legs (disproportionate)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Edit: wrong thread
 

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I judge a girl big time on her ex or who she's banged that I know about. If I feel that the girl is say a 8 and dated a 6 or banged a 6 or a 5, you know someone way below their level of what they can get, it's an instant turnoff. I'm also getting to where I'm getting turned off by women with kids.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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