"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bascially a girl gave me her number, then my friend added it as well after me (he did this twice that night) so i txt her about a week later no reply so i do nothing. Then i get a txt saying that she had no credit about 5 days after

to cut a long story short she wanted to know if i am out this sat and i asked her to meet up, she was working and asked if i wanted to do it another day, i said i dunno i'll ring you tomorrow.

i ring her and she wanted to go to the cinema, then i was ending the convo and she goes so ur coming out sat then she goes well bring your mates and she mentions me, then im like i am him. so she thought i was my mate, the phone was all ****ed up and i lost signal and i didnt ring back, so she showed intrest in me thinking it was my mate but also wanted me out on sat too its ****ed up and i have the worse luck ever is it even worth trying?

fixing the situation, my mate has a GF so he wouldnt care. any suggests im guessing most will be next?? i could try ringing her or wait till sat?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well if you have'nt already, tell your m8 what has been said so he is aware of the situation.

Then, wait until Saturday, ring her and ask if she wants to meet up. If she does, game on!

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HMM, i can honestly say if nothing comes out of this its fine, and if i tell my mate im interested he wont do ****, also he has a girlfriend so... we were getting on good on the phone till that point shes going out with her mates on sat and wanted our mates to so.. hmmm anymore adivse?
 
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