"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Modro

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Bascially a girl gave me her number, then my friend added it as well after me (he did this twice that night) so i txt her about a week later no reply so i do nothing. Then i get a txt saying that she had no credit about 5 days after

to cut a long story short she wanted to know if i am out this sat and i asked her to meet up, she was working and asked if i wanted to do it another day, i said i dunno i'll ring you tomorrow.

i ring her and she wanted to go to the cinema, then i was ending the convo and she goes so ur coming out sat then she goes well bring your mates and she mentions me, then im like i am him. so she thought i was my mate, the phone was all ****ed up and i lost signal and i didnt ring back, so she showed intrest in me thinking it was my mate but also wanted me out on sat too its ****ed up and i have the worse luck ever is it even worth trying?

fixing the situation, my mate has a GF so he wouldnt care. any suggests im guessing most will be next?? i could try ringing her or wait till sat?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well if you have'nt already, tell your m8 what has been said so he is aware of the situation.

Then, wait until Saturday, ring her and ask if she wants to meet up. If she does, game on!

G-man
 

Modro

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HMM, i can honestly say if nothing comes out of this its fine, and if i tell my mate im interested he wont do ****, also he has a girlfriend so... we were getting on good on the phone till that point shes going out with her mates on sat and wanted our mates to so.. hmmm anymore adivse?
 
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