"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bascially a girl gave me her number, then my friend added it as well after me (he did this twice that night) so i txt her about a week later no reply so i do nothing. Then i get a txt saying that she had no credit about 5 days after

to cut a long story short she wanted to know if i am out this sat and i asked her to meet up, she was working and asked if i wanted to do it another day, i said i dunno i'll ring you tomorrow.

i ring her and she wanted to go to the cinema, then i was ending the convo and she goes so ur coming out sat then she goes well bring your mates and she mentions me, then im like i am him. so she thought i was my mate, the phone was all ****ed up and i lost signal and i didnt ring back, so she showed intrest in me thinking it was my mate but also wanted me out on sat too its ****ed up and i have the worse luck ever is it even worth trying?

fixing the situation, my mate has a GF so he wouldnt care. any suggests im guessing most will be next?? i could try ringing her or wait till sat?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well if you have'nt already, tell your m8 what has been said so he is aware of the situation.

Then, wait until Saturday, ring her and ask if she wants to meet up. If she does, game on!

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HMM, i can honestly say if nothing comes out of this its fine, and if i tell my mate im interested he wont do ****, also he has a girlfriend so... we were getting on good on the phone till that point shes going out with her mates on sat and wanted our mates to so.. hmmm anymore adivse?
 
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