"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Weird situation here. I WANT to get friend-zoned by a hot girl.

JohnChops

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AlexDP said:
Stop pretending you're alpha. Stop pretending she cares so much. MOVE ON.
exactly, stop pretending, stop acting just do it... just not with your cousin... please, we dont need anymore f'ed up gene pools in this world.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Small steps, OP, start hitting on chicks youre not really interested in. Sounds strange but you have to start at the bottom of the ladder. I lost my virginity to a chick who was far more interested in me than I in her. That gave me enough confidence to start moving up the ladder.

Its like you realize you need a car but you refuse to drive anything but Porsches. Gotta start with a Honda or two my friend. Nobody likes to hear it but it's true.
 
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