"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Weird situation here. I WANT to get friend-zoned by a hot girl.

JohnChops

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AlexDP said:
Stop pretending you're alpha. Stop pretending she cares so much. MOVE ON.
exactly, stop pretending, stop acting just do it... just not with your cousin... please, we dont need anymore f'ed up gene pools in this world.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Small steps, OP, start hitting on chicks youre not really interested in. Sounds strange but you have to start at the bottom of the ladder. I lost my virginity to a chick who was far more interested in me than I in her. That gave me enough confidence to start moving up the ladder.

Its like you realize you need a car but you refuse to drive anything but Porsches. Gotta start with a Honda or two my friend. Nobody likes to hear it but it's true.
 
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