"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Weird situation here. I WANT to get friend-zoned by a hot girl.

JohnChops

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AlexDP said:
Stop pretending you're alpha. Stop pretending she cares so much. MOVE ON.
exactly, stop pretending, stop acting just do it... just not with your cousin... please, we dont need anymore f'ed up gene pools in this world.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Small steps, OP, start hitting on chicks youre not really interested in. Sounds strange but you have to start at the bottom of the ladder. I lost my virginity to a chick who was far more interested in me than I in her. That gave me enough confidence to start moving up the ladder.

Its like you realize you need a car but you refuse to drive anything but Porsches. Gotta start with a Honda or two my friend. Nobody likes to hear it but it's true.
 
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