"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Weird situation hanging with chicks after school.

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So after school today these girls invited me to hang with them after school. They said they were going bowling and were going to bring a lot of people so I decided to go with them. We'll anyway after school comes around and I meet up with them but its only these 3 chicks, and I was going to bail on them right there but I couldn't get a ride for like an hour so i stayed with them. so anyway i was with these 3 chicks, one of whom im pretty sure likes me, and the others idk or care. Anyway the whole time we were walking around and just going into stores and stuff and the whole time I kinda talked to the girl who i think likes me. Nothing really seemed to click though and i wasn't gonna go out of my way to impress them. The whole time they just kind of had their girl chat going on, and I didn't really feel like getting involved in that. Anyway im just kinda wondering if thats normal. Like nothing really exciting happened or anything and it was overall pretty boring.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yeah thats pretty much normal with most girls.
are you female?
 
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wtf? no im a dude. I normally wouldn't hang with just chicks like that but they said other people would be there and we would go bowling, but that didn't happen and I was stuck with them.
 
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Akyu said:
wtf? no im a dude. I normally wouldn't hang with just chicks like that but they said other people would be there and we would go bowling, but that didn't happen and I was stuck with them.
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your whole story sounds like you were one of the girls... thats cause you didn't mention anything specific that would point to being a man and getting some interest.

haha I was joking about the female thing btw.
 
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Sigh... GWA's still giving advice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
your whole story sounds like you were one of the girls... thats cause you didn't mention anything specific that would point to being a man and getting some interest.

haha I was joking about the female thing btw.
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get laid then post something....
 
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My advice would be to get involved. If the conversation was too girly you should have steered it into a more friendly type of one. On another note just sponge filter what Alamar says. Take it worth a grain of cocaine.
 
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