"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Weird situation hanging with chicks after school.

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So after school today these girls invited me to hang with them after school. They said they were going bowling and were going to bring a lot of people so I decided to go with them. We'll anyway after school comes around and I meet up with them but its only these 3 chicks, and I was going to bail on them right there but I couldn't get a ride for like an hour so i stayed with them. so anyway i was with these 3 chicks, one of whom im pretty sure likes me, and the others idk or care. Anyway the whole time we were walking around and just going into stores and stuff and the whole time I kinda talked to the girl who i think likes me. Nothing really seemed to click though and i wasn't gonna go out of my way to impress them. The whole time they just kind of had their girl chat going on, and I didn't really feel like getting involved in that. Anyway im just kinda wondering if thats normal. Like nothing really exciting happened or anything and it was overall pretty boring.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah thats pretty much normal with most girls.
are you female?
 

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wtf? no im a dude. I normally wouldn't hang with just chicks like that but they said other people would be there and we would go bowling, but that didn't happen and I was stuck with them.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Akyu said:
wtf? no im a dude. I normally wouldn't hang with just chicks like that but they said other people would be there and we would go bowling, but that didn't happen and I was stuck with them.
your whole story sounds like you were one of the girls... thats cause you didn't mention anything specific that would point to being a man and getting some interest.

haha I was joking about the female thing btw.
 

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Sigh... GWA's still giving advice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
your whole story sounds like you were one of the girls... thats cause you didn't mention anything specific that would point to being a man and getting some interest.

haha I was joking about the female thing btw.
get laid then post something....
 

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My advice would be to get involved. If the conversation was too girly you should have steered it into a more friendly type of one. On another note just sponge filter what Alamar says. Take it worth a grain of cocaine.
 
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