"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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toddC

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okay...i chilled with this girl all of the 8th grade and she was hot...so this year in school (she goes to a diffrent school) i see this girl again and SHE IS A 9.5! I'm like we gota chill...so i talked to her online all this summer...and shes always like yea lets chill we set seomthign up but she always has to go somwehere or something...so after a few weeks i nexted her and moved on...recently i saw he rin the mall and i was like wtf ill text her to see if that was her...and so after that she sbeen textin me saying she wants to chill and i told her to come this friday and im talkin to this girl everynight...should i be expecting for her to come or nah?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It is impossible to tell.

The real question is are YOU going to have fun with or w/o her?
 

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Maybe she's moving on. That's what you should be doing. And WTF I can't tell the future to see if she's coming or not.
 

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i'm sorry for even posting this...i was retarted last night... lol
 

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Good that you realized that, todd, but what I want to know is why in the mall you didn't actually go up to her and see if it was her, but rather had to hide behind cell phone signals.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no myself and my friend did try to follow her but we were far away from her when i spotted her and by the time we tried to catch up we couldnt find her...trust me we looked for her for about an hour but didnt find her.
 
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