okay...i chilled with this girl all of the 8th grade and she was hot...so this year in school (she goes to a diffrent school) i see this girl again and SHE IS A 9.5! I'm like we gota chill...so i talked to her online all this summer...and shes always like yea lets chill we set seomthign up but she always has to go somwehere or something...so after a few weeks i nexted her and moved on...recently i saw he rin the mall and i was like wtf ill text her to see if that was her...and so after that she sbeen textin me saying she wants to chill and i told her to come this friday and im talkin to this girl everynight...should i be expecting for her to come or nah?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
weird signalsvery weird
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