"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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okay...i chilled with this girl all of the 8th grade and she was hot...so this year in school (she goes to a diffrent school) i see this girl again and SHE IS A 9.5! I'm like we gota chill...so i talked to her online all this summer...and shes always like yea lets chill we set seomthign up but she always has to go somwehere or something...so after a few weeks i nexted her and moved on...recently i saw he rin the mall and i was like wtf ill text her to see if that was her...and so after that she sbeen textin me saying she wants to chill and i told her to come this friday and im talkin to this girl everynight...should i be expecting for her to come or nah?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It is impossible to tell.

The real question is are YOU going to have fun with or w/o her?
 
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Maybe she's moving on. That's what you should be doing. And WTF I can't tell the future to see if she's coming or not.
 
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i'm sorry for even posting this...i was retarted last night... lol
 
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Good that you realized that, todd, but what I want to know is why in the mall you didn't actually go up to her and see if it was her, but rather had to hide behind cell phone signals.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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no myself and my friend did try to follow her but we were far away from her when i spotted her and by the time we tried to catch up we couldnt find her...trust me we looked for her for about an hour but didnt find her.
 
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