Weird one

[Afrodesiac]

I dunno if i’m overthinking this **** but i need an opinion - when me and my girl are about to get intimate and I initiate, I pull her in and start kissing her and them she stops and starts rubbing her nose on mine like i’m some sort of puppy and them proceeds to lay back down on my chest…i’ve never had this with ex’s and **** and its weird as **** because someone who wants intimacy (its been 2 weeks because of logistics) surely wouldn’t behave like this?
Lemme know if i’m overthinking - usually we will end up having sex but when its clear i’m trying to make an advance why would she do this weird nose rubbing ****.

 

[cola]

Just a weird personality quirk, if she’s not withholding sex from you I wouldn’t over think it.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So she's laying on her back while she's laying on your chest? I'd playfully bite her nose next time, that sounds lame. like she's trying to stifle the mood or betaize you. It's like if you ask her for a beer and she brings you an O'Doul's before getting the damn Corona.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Yo Cola your team did Maxx Crosby dirty

 

[BPH]

I dunno if i’m overthinking this **** but i need an opinion - when me and my girl are about to get intimate and I initiate, I pull her in and start kissing her and them she stops and starts rubbing her nose on mine like i’m some sort of puppy and them proceeds to lay back down on my chest…i’ve never had this with ex’s and **** and its weird as **** because someone who wants intimacy (its been 2 weeks because of logistics) surely wouldn’t behave like this?
Lemme know if i’m overthinking - usually we will end up having sex but when its clear i’m trying to make an advance why would she do this weird nose rubbing ****.

My guess would be that she wants affection in addition to the intimacy so she doesn't feel cheap, or like she's being used.

She probably knows what's about to go down, but wants to feel like you LIKE her, and aren't ONLY there to bang her.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

My guess would be that she wants affection in addition to the intimacy so she doesn't feel cheap, or like she's being used.

She probably knows what's about to go down, but wants to feel like you LIKE her, and aren't ONLY there to bang her.

This

But if this is "your girl" OP and she feels insecure to the point where she feels compelled to do this, it's a red flag imo

It's like your cat or dog trying to tell you something's wrong, but in this case the other party has the ability to speak but chooses not to.

 

[intricate design]

I heard the nose is connected to the heart

Maybe she likes you more than you like her
maybe she’s nervous too or reluctant

 

[Clockwerk50]

It is just an Eskimo kiss, and it is a way to show affection. If she is doing this while you are advancing towards sex, it might indicate she needs more foreplay. If she is doing this while she is initiating sex, then maybe she thinks it is sexy.

I wouldn’t think too much about it. Different people show affection in slightly different ways. It is a cool/funny story you can tell your future grandchildren.

 

[Sega Genesis]

when me and my girl are about to get intimate and I initiate, I pull her in and start kissing her and them she stops and starts rubbing her nose on mine like i’m some sort of puppy

First off I am envisioning this^ scenario and can see how this might be a total vibe killer for you!

You as the man are controlling the frame and leading (as you shouid), you're hot for her and want to sexually connect and suddenly she stops you and decides to control the frame and lead.

From a hot and passionate sexual vibe (you) to a warm and fuzzy rubbing noses vibe (her).

You said you end up having sex, how is that going? Is she a full participant or does she just lay there?

How long have you been dating/having sex with her?

Yes it's a sign of affection but there's a time and a place and it's NOT while her man has a huge boner and wants to ravage her. Total mood killer.

If she feels insecure like she's being "used" that is an entirely different issue. You're her boyfriend ffs.

I'm not sure what advice there is, you may have completely different sexual styles and not sexually compatible. Or she's uncomfortable with sexual vulnerability or not sexually attracted enough to let you lead and lose herself in the moment.

Could be any number of things.

P.S. I'm female btw but I'm on your side here thinking it's weird in that moment.