"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Weird one from tinder

dk1990S111

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Matched with this chick on tinder, she only had a picture of her back to the camera on a beach. Talked to her a little on there, says she’s from Ukraine. Moved to CA when she was 8 and now she lives here. After a few back and forth she tells me to add her on Kik.

I add her and shoot her a message. Go back to tinder a little while later and she’s either unmatched or deleted her account. Been messaging a little but timing is weird with her. Will get a few messages back and forth then she’s mia from like 11:30 last night to 6 today. Don’t really care about the chatting but just mention it because it seems weird to me. Some messages her English is a little weird (has said “how’s your night doing” twice now). Got her to send a picture and first thing I did was look it up on google to see if it’s some scammer that just took a random picture off google. Checked out on there. She asks what I’m up to so I tell her I’m out and she says to let her know when I get home.

Just overall pretty weird. Anyone else seen this kinda thing before?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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John9999

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Yes. She (or he) is not in USA. That’s why the weird times in texts. You will get hit up soon to verify your identity on some scam site soon
 

sazc

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Bot girl. Everntually she'll be asking you to pay to see her nudes
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Blacksheep

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All the girls I dated on Tinder here on my town were some way crazy haha. Then I observed that it always the same girls there (cause my town is not big).

Then I stopped and started to play on instagram. It's a bit difficult but there is a lot more quality women there.

And be aware of those fake girls on tinder man, it can be really dangerous. Only go out with someone who has real pictures and also a instagram account linked to tinder.
 

redskinsfan92

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Bot girl. Everntually she'll be asking you to pay to see her nudes
The current scam is go to scam site and verify your identity. Had 2 just this week.
 

Dan.Lifestyle

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Matched with this chick on tinder, she only had a picture of her back to the camera on a beach. Talked to her a little on there, says she’s from Ukraine. Moved to CA when she was 8 and now she lives here. After a few back and forth she tells me to add her on Kik.

I add her and shoot her a message. Go back to tinder a little while later and she’s either unmatched or deleted her account. Been messaging a little but timing is weird with her. Will get a few messages back and forth then she’s mia from like 11:30 last night to 6 today. Don’t really care about the chatting but just mention it because it seems weird to me. Some messages her English is a little weird (has said “how’s your night doing” twice now). Got her to send a picture and first thing I did was look it up on google to see if it’s some scammer that just took a random picture off google. Checked out on there. She asks what I’m up to so I tell her I’m out and she says to let her know when I get home.

Just overall pretty weird. Anyone else seen this kinda thing before?
Yeah short and simple totally a scam/bot.
 

dk1990S111

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This sh*t always works on guys who don’t have a lot of options, because they are more willing to proceed hoping it’s real rather than ghost at the first hint of something not quite right.

If OLD is very limited in your area don’t use it. Find a better way to meet women.
Yup pretty limited, matched with another chick on tinder this morning. Sexy af 21 y/o no bio when we matched then after talking for a while she adds she has 2 kids. Fvck lol
 

Dan.Lifestyle

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Yup pretty limited, matched with another chick on tinder this morning. Sexy af 21 y/o no bio when we matched then after talking for a while she adds she has 2 kids. Fvck lol
Yep thats Tinder for ya haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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