"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Weird one from tinder

dk1990S111

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Matched with this chick on tinder, she only had a picture of her back to the camera on a beach. Talked to her a little on there, says she’s from Ukraine. Moved to CA when she was 8 and now she lives here. After a few back and forth she tells me to add her on Kik.

I add her and shoot her a message. Go back to tinder a little while later and she’s either unmatched or deleted her account. Been messaging a little but timing is weird with her. Will get a few messages back and forth then she’s mia from like 11:30 last night to 6 today. Don’t really care about the chatting but just mention it because it seems weird to me. Some messages her English is a little weird (has said “how’s your night doing” twice now). Got her to send a picture and first thing I did was look it up on google to see if it’s some scammer that just took a random picture off google. Checked out on there. She asks what I’m up to so I tell her I’m out and she says to let her know when I get home.

Just overall pretty weird. Anyone else seen this kinda thing before?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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John9999

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Yes. She (or he) is not in USA. That’s why the weird times in texts. You will get hit up soon to verify your identity on some scam site soon
 

sazc

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Bot girl. Everntually she'll be asking you to pay to see her nudes
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Blacksheep

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All the girls I dated on Tinder here on my town were some way crazy haha. Then I observed that it always the same girls there (cause my town is not big).

Then I stopped and started to play on instagram. It's a bit difficult but there is a lot more quality women there.

And be aware of those fake girls on tinder man, it can be really dangerous. Only go out with someone who has real pictures and also a instagram account linked to tinder.
 

redskinsfan92

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Bot girl. Everntually she'll be asking you to pay to see her nudes
The current scam is go to scam site and verify your identity. Had 2 just this week.
 

Dan.Lifestyle

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Matched with this chick on tinder, she only had a picture of her back to the camera on a beach. Talked to her a little on there, says she’s from Ukraine. Moved to CA when she was 8 and now she lives here. After a few back and forth she tells me to add her on Kik.

I add her and shoot her a message. Go back to tinder a little while later and she’s either unmatched or deleted her account. Been messaging a little but timing is weird with her. Will get a few messages back and forth then she’s mia from like 11:30 last night to 6 today. Don’t really care about the chatting but just mention it because it seems weird to me. Some messages her English is a little weird (has said “how’s your night doing” twice now). Got her to send a picture and first thing I did was look it up on google to see if it’s some scammer that just took a random picture off google. Checked out on there. She asks what I’m up to so I tell her I’m out and she says to let her know when I get home.

Just overall pretty weird. Anyone else seen this kinda thing before?
Yeah short and simple totally a scam/bot.
 

dk1990S111

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This sh*t always works on guys who don’t have a lot of options, because they are more willing to proceed hoping it’s real rather than ghost at the first hint of something not quite right.

If OLD is very limited in your area don’t use it. Find a better way to meet women.
Yup pretty limited, matched with another chick on tinder this morning. Sexy af 21 y/o no bio when we matched then after talking for a while she adds she has 2 kids. Fvck lol
 

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Yup pretty limited, matched with another chick on tinder this morning. Sexy af 21 y/o no bio when we matched then after talking for a while she adds she has 2 kids. Fvck lol
Yep thats Tinder for ya haha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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