"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SexinEar

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I might as well post this.

Ok, so this girl who I had a bunch of classes with last year and whom I hardly ever talked to left me some wild ass myspace comment out of nowhere. She wrote a long ass comment about some teacher me and her made fun of and gave me her screename and email and wanted to know if I was in any classes with her. She finished it with xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox's and like a muah. It came out of nowhere which is whats so weird.

Anyway, what do you guys think of this and your opinions on how to respond. I have an idea how to, its just with aim, if I go to far on it, i fu,ck everything up. haha thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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are u seriously posting about a myspace comment? .......and then stressing about screwing up with this girl?....... excuse me well I go beat myself over the head with a big azz maglite
 

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Alright lets see if I can try my hand at a better response. I have nothing against myspace it comes in very useful. And that comment you got great for you man! It's nothing to overanalyze maybe she threw you an IOI. Just do the usual methods to build her attraction and ask her out. If you mess up and/or get rejected its not a bad thing!!! Rejection is good.... at least thats how i see it.... (though it doesn't happen often to me, You'd be surprised how hard it really is to get rejected!!) rejection can be a great learning Experience!! Good Luck with the girl man!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Look, don't take this harshly dude, but surely SoSuave doesn't want to be using bandwidth on this topic.
 

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well she wrote to you about a teacher you were bagging on to have a funny conversation with you.
why would she want to do that? perhaps she likes you a little.

she gave you her screen name and email address so you would contact her again. subtle isnt it? perhaps she likes you a little.

she asks you if you are in any classes with her now, so she can see if she will be able to grab a seat next to you. why? perhaps she likes you a little.

xoxoxoxoxox = i like you
muah = kiss

what part didnt you get yet?
 

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sorry, its just myspace comments mean sh.t and most of the time girls are just messing around, but this seems more genuine bc she gave me her sn. thanks tho, I support bandwith preservation [=
 

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SexinEar said:
sorry, its just myspace comments mean sh.t and most of the time girls are just messing around, but this seems more genuine bc she gave me her sn. thanks tho, I support bandwith preservation [=
Hah, good on ya buddy.

Either way, have a chat to her. Follow it up if you like, and let us know how it turns out.

Good luck :)

EDIT: Added a smile. Gotta do that more often :D
 

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Send her a message and put your screen name in the message. Be like .whats up blah blah blah Hey my screen name is ______ ;-]. If she im's you she is interested. This is a great way to find out if she is interested at all. If she wants you she can come and get you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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