"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Weird guy getting laid.

Kpocalypse

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Oh man I’m so damn confused/jealous right now. A friend of mine, one of my best friends actually, was at my house today and we hung out and stuff. This guy is the quietest guy I’ve ever seen in my life. He only talks when he feels like it and don’t give a **** about how he comes across. He doesn’t take care of his hygiene at all, he only showers and put on a deodorant. He never combs his hair, which is really messy and not styled, he has kind of long hair, it reaches his upper lip and he has his nasty little moustache, you know the kind you get when you’re 14. . He does these damn crazy things when he’s bored, like pretending to be retarded and asks random people what time it is. NEVER laugh if he doesn’t find something extremely funny, he doesn’t give a **** even when a HB makes a joke or something, he just stares at her like she’s a retard. He is smart, but he lives in his own reality where everything he doesn’t like is worthless to him and has 0 value. He hates authority figures and I guess you can call him a rebel.
So, this guy can’t possibly have a girl huh? I definitely never thought he could get one.
Now he has this freaking hot chic who’s 18, he’s 15. He never calls her, she always calls him, and when they’re together they eat, sleep, drink, he’s also tried drugs with her and they ****, they aren’t in a serious relationship. He’s also made out with some girls in his class during school time.
I know some of his attributes can be attractive, but come the F- on, this guy?
Man, can’t believe he nailed a chic before me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Morphiex

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well lets rewiew :

he is a rebel
he dont give a **** about what other think of him
he doesnt laugh at stupid jokes thta hot chicks make unless they are funny
he doesnt care about how he looks , oposite of what these pink t shirt wearing mofos do these days.
he talks only when its necessary , keeps the mystery level up....
And hes got some huge Confidence...

seems to me that hes a dj , just lacking some hygiene problems i guess , but you could just be exxagerating.....

u could learn a thing or two from this guy ....
all of us could i guess =P
the biggest key is confidence , girls love guys with confidence , and it sounds like he has it , has alot of it.....
 

danro

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yea the only thing i could c a girl thinking unnatractive about him is the little mustache. I only take a shower and put some deoderant on. somedays i just skip the deodorant part to and he has all the personality traits of a dj its actually not a big suprise
 

itishe

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Tell this guy to come on here, and teach me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nzo

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I have a friend EXACTLY like this minus the mustache and smae thing for him, hes got an awesome gf ****ing him and i cant figure it out
 

shiningshadow

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Haven't you guys read the bible? -_-
 

kev me723

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what you don't realize is that in those things that make him seem like he'd be terrible with the ladies, you actually listed a solid 4-5 things that are different from the average male in an attractive way. keep watch my boy, you'll know in due time....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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