"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PooMan

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OK so this gal ive been getting closer too lately, we were always friends but last week or so weve hung out alot more at college and shes texting me alot more

she texts me asking how work was and i tell her, so she says "well ill let you relax without me disturbing you"

thing is this isnt the 1st time shes text me then text me again finding a reason not to text me anymore

like the other day i didnt reply to a text for like half hour and when i did (i didnt tell her why or what i was doing) but she replied "wel your obviously busy so sorry to disturb you ill let you get back to what you were doing"

also when i was about to go to sleep the other night she text me saying "mike you cant go to sleep im bored blah blah blah" then in the next text she said "do ya wanna go to sleep?"

its kinda weird, sometimes i continue to text her but sometimes i just stop (like last night ididnt reply)

am i reading too much into it? how would you respond?

cheers
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GSXR600

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Always remember that you are the prize. Flip the script on her, I would tell her yah I am busy I will call you later. Always make it your idea. Dont let her mess with you.
 

sparky1981

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Shes not messing with you. She like's you but shes not confident and afraid she will mess it up or piss you off. Try asking her out if you like her. But her lack of self confidence may be trouble later.
 

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Until you ask her out you'll never know what is going on...
 
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