"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weird Gal

PooMan

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OK so this gal ive been getting closer too lately, we were always friends but last week or so weve hung out alot more at college and shes texting me alot more

she texts me asking how work was and i tell her, so she says "well ill let you relax without me disturbing you"

thing is this isnt the 1st time shes text me then text me again finding a reason not to text me anymore

like the other day i didnt reply to a text for like half hour and when i did (i didnt tell her why or what i was doing) but she replied "wel your obviously busy so sorry to disturb you ill let you get back to what you were doing"

also when i was about to go to sleep the other night she text me saying "mike you cant go to sleep im bored blah blah blah" then in the next text she said "do ya wanna go to sleep?"

its kinda weird, sometimes i continue to text her but sometimes i just stop (like last night ididnt reply)

am i reading too much into it? how would you respond?

cheers
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GSXR600

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Always remember that you are the prize. Flip the script on her, I would tell her yah I am busy I will call you later. Always make it your idea. Dont let her mess with you.
 

sparky1981

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Shes not messing with you. She like's you but shes not confident and afraid she will mess it up or piss you off. Try asking her out if you like her. But her lack of self confidence may be trouble later.
 

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Until you ask her out you'll never know what is going on...
 
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