"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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illmatic1005

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ok..last nite my gf was drunk and flirting with some guy...and today i was like 'im not mad, just dissappointed' and whatever and she was like 'it was no big deal tho'

and then she emailed me saying "last night all those guys said u were lucky to be with me..but im the lucky one, your not''

she feels raelly bad about what she did

any advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kinda dangerous dont you think? your not really letting her know that she did something wrong, which could mean she might do it again.

I've learned many times that "being drunk" is no excuse for my actions.
 
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illmatic1005 said:
ok..last nite my gf was drunk and flirting with some guy...and today i was like 'im not mad, just dissappointed' and whatever and she was like 'it was no big deal tho'

and then she emailed me saying "last night all those guys said u were lucky to be with me..but im the lucky one, your not''

she feels raelly bad about what she did

any advice?
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Dont fall into the trap but If you must fall into it in order to learn a lesson then so be it. She doesnt feel THAT bad trust me because she loved the attention.
 
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illmatic1005 said:
ok..last nite my gf was drunk and flirting with some guy...and today i was like 'im not mad, just dissappointed' and whatever and she was like 'it was no big deal tho'

and then she emailed me saying "last night all those guys said u were lucky to be with me..but im the lucky one, your not''

she feels raelly bad about what she did

any advice?
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You said she was flirting with some guy and then later she says all those guys. That's kind of confusing. I am a firm believer in alcohol being a truth serum and if she's flirting with a bunch of guys while she's drunk I would be careful with that one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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