"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok..last nite my gf was drunk and flirting with some guy...and today i was like 'im not mad, just dissappointed' and whatever and she was like 'it was no big deal tho'

and then she emailed me saying "last night all those guys said u were lucky to be with me..but im the lucky one, your not''

she feels raelly bad about what she did

any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kinda dangerous dont you think? your not really letting her know that she did something wrong, which could mean she might do it again.

I've learned many times that "being drunk" is no excuse for my actions.
 
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illmatic1005 said:
ok..last nite my gf was drunk and flirting with some guy...and today i was like 'im not mad, just dissappointed' and whatever and she was like 'it was no big deal tho'

and then she emailed me saying "last night all those guys said u were lucky to be with me..but im the lucky one, your not''

she feels raelly bad about what she did

any advice?
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Dont fall into the trap but If you must fall into it in order to learn a lesson then so be it. She doesnt feel THAT bad trust me because she loved the attention.
 
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illmatic1005 said:
ok..last nite my gf was drunk and flirting with some guy...and today i was like 'im not mad, just dissappointed' and whatever and she was like 'it was no big deal tho'

and then she emailed me saying "last night all those guys said u were lucky to be with me..but im the lucky one, your not''

she feels raelly bad about what she did

any advice?
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You said she was flirting with some guy and then later she says all those guys. That's kind of confusing. I am a firm believer in alcohol being a truth serum and if she's flirting with a bunch of guys while she's drunk I would be careful with that one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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