What's up. I've been knowing this chick for about 5 years. Our "run" was real short and wasn't even nothing serious, was like a 3 day thing.. Over the years I would hit her up , 90% of the time she will not respond and sometimes she will.
One day she hits me out the blue after a week of not responding to me..she writes " wassup"..I respond with " wassup..where you at?"..she'll respond with " Why wassup" (which is dumb to me because she hit me up smh)...I'll respond and she'll never respond (lol)...
Fast forward..a year later.. bored and I was on my snapchat..I screenshoted a message she sent..she saw I screenshotted it she opened the message instantly..I didn't respond she didn't also..next day I hit her up..she responds instantly...I write be back she responds instantly...a week passes and I hit her up and say " I'm gonna swing by today"..she responds back "No"..I'm like "why..what's up?"..she says " I don't have nothing to wear".....I wrote back she didn't open and the next day I see she opened but didn't respond...so I wrote her again and asked where she was at..she writes back in 3 min and says "Home" ..I reply back " send me address"..she repliee back " where you at I'm gone pull up on you I don't like people coming to my house"....I gave her the address..she says " uuggh I'm on the east washing clothes give me a min" (but you just said you was at home lol )....I wrote her back and told her I'll come there..she didn't open it or respond until hrs later and said " I don't like no one coming to my house I'm coming now"...long story short she never came (lol).
Later that night I wrote her again and told her to pull up now to the address I sent..I then called her after some mins..she declined it and wrote back " I'm in for tonight I've been ripping and running all day"...I'm saying to my self "wtf? Lol". I never responded till the next day and she never opened it.
I'm confused. When it happened my gut said she got "nervous" but then I don't want be delusional...what do you all think is going on? She playing games? She playing hard to get? I'm lost..
One day she hits me out the blue after a week of not responding to me..she writes " wassup"..I respond with " wassup..where you at?"..she'll respond with " Why wassup" (which is dumb to me because she hit me up smh)...I'll respond and she'll never respond (lol)...
Fast forward..a year later.. bored and I was on my snapchat..I screenshoted a message she sent..she saw I screenshotted it she opened the message instantly..I didn't respond she didn't also..next day I hit her up..she responds instantly...I write be back she responds instantly...a week passes and I hit her up and say " I'm gonna swing by today"..she responds back "No"..I'm like "why..what's up?"..she says " I don't have nothing to wear".....I wrote back she didn't open and the next day I see she opened but didn't respond...so I wrote her again and asked where she was at..she writes back in 3 min and says "Home" ..I reply back " send me address"..she repliee back " where you at I'm gone pull up on you I don't like people coming to my house"....I gave her the address..she says " uuggh I'm on the east washing clothes give me a min" (but you just said you was at home lol )....I wrote her back and told her I'll come there..she didn't open it or respond until hrs later and said " I don't like no one coming to my house I'm coming now"...long story short she never came (lol).
Later that night I wrote her again and told her to pull up now to the address I sent..I then called her after some mins..she declined it and wrote back " I'm in for tonight I've been ripping and running all day"...I'm saying to my self "wtf? Lol". I never responded till the next day and she never opened it.
I'm confused. When it happened my gut said she got "nervous" but then I don't want be delusional...what do you all think is going on? She playing games? She playing hard to get? I'm lost..
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