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weird about hitting on a new girl in front of another girl i have hit on in gym

whosthat

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this just seems weird for me. I know i should not give a flying **** about anyone around at all including in front of another girl i have hit on the gym. I feel like it will be weird for the girl that i prevously hit on will be witnessing me hitting on some other chick and she be saying in her head like oh heres this guy over here trying to hit on some other girl again. see at my gym theres certain cardio equipment thats to the side of the main floor and can see everyone, and theres some girls that are daily regulars there. they would see me continously hit on new girls and see me constanlty probly get rejected since the rejec rate is so high anyway, and that would make me feel weird knowing this girl or girls would see this so much. i know i should say F what anybody sees and thinks, but whats yalls opinion and do any of you guys feel this way
 

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dutchmaster

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Hitting on girls at the gym isn't worth it. 90% of them are attention wh0res anyway. just go there to work out. But if you are hitting on them who gives a fvck like you said. just keep doing you
 
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