"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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weird about hitting on a new girl in front of another girl i have hit on in gym

whosthat

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this just seems weird for me. I know i should not give a flying **** about anyone around at all including in front of another girl i have hit on the gym. I feel like it will be weird for the girl that i prevously hit on will be witnessing me hitting on some other chick and she be saying in her head like oh heres this guy over here trying to hit on some other girl again. see at my gym theres certain cardio equipment thats to the side of the main floor and can see everyone, and theres some girls that are daily regulars there. they would see me continously hit on new girls and see me constanlty probly get rejected since the rejec rate is so high anyway, and that would make me feel weird knowing this girl or girls would see this so much. i know i should say F what anybody sees and thinks, but whats yalls opinion and do any of you guys feel this way
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dutchmaster

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Hitting on girls at the gym isn't worth it. 90% of them are attention wh0res anyway. just go there to work out. But if you are hitting on them who gives a fvck like you said. just keep doing you
 
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