"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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weird about hitting on a new girl in front of another girl i have hit on in gym

whosthat

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this just seems weird for me. I know i should not give a flying **** about anyone around at all including in front of another girl i have hit on the gym. I feel like it will be weird for the girl that i prevously hit on will be witnessing me hitting on some other chick and she be saying in her head like oh heres this guy over here trying to hit on some other girl again. see at my gym theres certain cardio equipment thats to the side of the main floor and can see everyone, and theres some girls that are daily regulars there. they would see me continously hit on new girls and see me constanlty probly get rejected since the rejec rate is so high anyway, and that would make me feel weird knowing this girl or girls would see this so much. i know i should say F what anybody sees and thinks, but whats yalls opinion and do any of you guys feel this way
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dutchmaster

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Hitting on girls at the gym isn't worth it. 90% of them are attention wh0res anyway. just go there to work out. But if you are hitting on them who gives a fvck like you said. just keep doing you
 
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