"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Weight loss journey

Dacarnix

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Hi all,

Im a 19y/o, student, whos been body-building now for just over a year.
Obviously, I'm over-weight; else why else would I make this thread!

I let my last bulk definitely get the best of me, and well, my weight sky-rocketed.

My current stats:
Height - 5'10
Weight - 85kg, about 187 pounds for you Americans.

I'm no newbie to this sort of things, this isn't my first cut by any means, and I do have a solid understanding of nutrition and preserving muscle while losing fat. However I thought it'd be good to post here, regularly, to keep my ass inline.

I'm (estimating purely) maybe 20-24% bf currently, and aiming within the next few months to carve that down to 12 hopefully by end of November.

Here are my current pics, no pump or anything:
http://i.imgur.com/IuGCpqH.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/8ho6Xi1.jpg
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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Dacarnix said:
Hi all,

Im a 19y/o, student, whos been body-building now for just over a year.
Obviously, I'm over-weight; else why else would I make this thread!

I let my last bulk definitely get the best of me, and well, my weight sky-rocketed.

My current stats:
Height - 5'10
Weight - 85kg, about 187 pounds for you Americans.

I'm no newbie to this sort of things, this isn't my first cut by any means, and I do have a solid understanding of nutrition and preserving muscle while losing fat. However I thought it'd be good to post here, regularly, to keep my ass inline.

I'm (estimating purely) maybe 20-24% bf currently, and aiming within the next few months to carve that down to 12 hopefully by end of November.

Here are my current pics, no pump or anything:
http://i.imgur.com/IuGCpqH.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/8ho6Xi1.jpg
No offense, but you don't have much to carve. If you get down to 12% with your current pics you are just going to look skinny. Bulking and cutting don't exist unless you are taking steroids.
 

Dacarnix

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marmel75 said:
No offense, but you don't have much to carve. If you get down to 12% with your current pics you are just going to look skinny. Bulking and cutting don't exist unless you are taking steroids.
None taken; what would you suggest then? Because I still really need to lose b/f anyways.
 
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