"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yngad

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hey guys i just have a simple question for you.

at the beginning of the summer i started working out alot more, got a personal traininer, nutritionist, etc and really committed myself to losing weight. i wasn't really fat but a little bit chubby. i lost about 15 pounds and since school started i've been getting more looks and compliments from girls at work (resteraunt) and girls I hang out with every once and ahile how should I respond to them? i say the typical thanks but is there anything c+f i can say?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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THE_ADDMAN

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tell em you're feeling famished and that they better invite you over for dinner


clothing optional
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Tell them that you've been in training for your Ultimate Fighter match with Jarred the Subway guy.
 

DarkLight

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Tell them that you've been in training for your Ultimate Fighter match with Jarred the Subway guy.
LMAO! Classic.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spesmilitis

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if you're ripped, but like, 'yeah, but i need better (insert body part here, like abs)' then take off your shirt. Then be like 'i think my (insert body part) could be alittle harder, what do you think' then take their hand and put it over that body part.
 

yngad

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good suggestions ... i'm not to ripped yet ... but will get there gotta lose a bit more weight first
 

HBK

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Remember that song on south park about jared lol

" He's still lookin' good!

His name is Jared

His name is Jared and he likes to eat the sandwiches..."
 
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