"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yngad

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hey guys i just have a simple question for you.

at the beginning of the summer i started working out alot more, got a personal traininer, nutritionist, etc and really committed myself to losing weight. i wasn't really fat but a little bit chubby. i lost about 15 pounds and since school started i've been getting more looks and compliments from girls at work (resteraunt) and girls I hang out with every once and ahile how should I respond to them? i say the typical thanks but is there anything c+f i can say?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tell em you're feeling famished and that they better invite you over for dinner


clothing optional
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Tell them that you've been in training for your Ultimate Fighter match with Jarred the Subway guy.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Tell them that you've been in training for your Ultimate Fighter match with Jarred the Subway guy.
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LMAO! Classic.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if you're ripped, but like, 'yeah, but i need better (insert body part here, like abs)' then take off your shirt. Then be like 'i think my (insert body part) could be alittle harder, what do you think' then take their hand and put it over that body part.
 
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yngad

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good suggestions ... i'm not to ripped yet ... but will get there gotta lose a bit more weight first
 
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Remember that song on south park about jared lol

" He's still lookin' good!

His name is Jared

His name is Jared and he likes to eat the sandwiches..."
 
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