You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If you're being sarcastic........stop and think about what you just said. Do you think one exception makes it a myth? come on, you know there's an exception to every rule.Originally posted by MetalFortress
My weightlifting coach is about 5'8 or 5'9. His wife is the same height. Their oldest son, Casey Burgener, is 6'1 and a world class olympic weightlifter who has been training since age 5.
Yeah, weightlifting stunts growth.
Exactly. While it may not be common, it is still could happen if you push yourself just a little bit too hard. It may just be coincidence, but most of the REALLY strong guys in my highschool who started lifting big weight in middleschool were like 5'8" and below. Doctors are cautious about having you lift huge weight when you're still growing, and they're not stupid for cautioning you either.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
If you're being sarcastic........stop and think about what you just said. Do you think one exception makes it a myth? come on, you know there's an exception to every rule.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's been scientifically proven that weightlifting doesn't stunt growth. Do you want to try to argue against scientific fact? Didn't think so. In fact, the extra growth hormone caused by weightlifting should push growth to INCREASED levels, as was shown with my coach's son.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
If you're being sarcastic........stop and think about what you just said. Do you think one exception makes it a myth? come on, you know there's an exception to every rule.