"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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do u think lifting to heavily like legs and lower body will stunt my growth or will it help increase my height, also i feel like getting to muscular will make me look shorter i dunno please help me out
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You should post this in the health forum, where we talk about stuff like that
 

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I don't think it will stunt your growth, unless you are lifting really seriously as a pre-pubescent boy or something. Growth plates can be damaged if you lift too heavy, but it is probably really rare. Why not just play it safe for now if you are supposed to grow more? You can definitely do the bench press as hard as you want and all the other exercises, but might want to hold back on the intensity of the squats.... that's what I do. Being skinny does have a way to make you look taller it seems, but not much difference either way. One thing is for sure: if you don't get enough calories, you are advised to not work out with the same frequency as those who do. You should be in a calorie-excess state, but since I personally don't feel like eating 6+ meals a day and being a slave to working out, I keep it more casual and just take the slower gains I get. I do suppose growth stunting could occur if you used all your energy on working out and didn't allow any for body nourishment or growing, so that is another reason why I would wait.
 

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To the Health Forum


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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there has never been a study done that proves weightlifting stunts growth
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
My weightlifting coach is about 5'8 or 5'9. His wife is the same height. Their oldest son, Casey Burgener, is 6'1 and a world class olympic weightlifter who has been training since age 5.

Yeah, weightlifting stunts growth.
If you're being sarcastic........stop and think about what you just said. Do you think one exception makes it a myth? come on, you know there's an exception to every rule.
 

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It's weird this subject should come up....

I have been talking with my friends about this lately. True, there is anecdotal evidence on both sides as far as lifting during puberty.

But from a physiological point of view, we know for a fact that heavy lifting(squats, deadlift, bench) increase testosterone levels. Testosterone is the hormone responsible for closure of the growth plates....so, does it mean anything? who knows.

Another interesting thought....I wonder if intentionally trying to limit testosterone production during pre-pubescent years through diet and exercise would produce a taller adult?
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
If you're being sarcastic........stop and think about what you just said. Do you think one exception makes it a myth? come on, you know there's an exception to every rule.
Exactly. While it may not be common, it is still could happen if you push yourself just a little bit too hard. It may just be coincidence, but most of the REALLY strong guys in my highschool who started lifting big weight in middleschool were like 5'8" and below. Doctors are cautious about having you lift huge weight when you're still growing, and they're not stupid for cautioning you either.
 

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Oh yeah,

The other part of my conversation with my group of friends was exercise training methods....like which group of footbal players would actually be stronger on the field if group A did only plyometrics, running, and bodyweight exercises, and group B did only weight lifting and running.

I believe group A...but who knows?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, probably group A would be more effective, just because of their method of training. You can of course use different methods when working out with weights to give you the right combination of strength, power (best for football), endurance, etc. You'd be making a mistake if you only trained for pure strength.... On another note, I knew a couple guys in highschool benching upwards of 400 lbs but their flexibility and agility sucked and their POWER was not as good as it could have been.
 

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I've seen the same thing in Judo, guys who were really strong in the gym, but not very strong on the mat. Then, there's always the farm kid who is freaky strong, but never lifted weights. Also, I totally agree that strength and flexibility are often an inverse relationship.

If I were you NewDJ, just to be on the safe side, since there is no definite answer, don't lift heavy and just try to build functional strength with plyometrics and body weight exercises.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
If you're being sarcastic........stop and think about what you just said. Do you think one exception makes it a myth? come on, you know there's an exception to every rule.
It's been scientifically proven that weightlifting doesn't stunt growth. Do you want to try to argue against scientific fact? Didn't think so. In fact, the extra growth hormone caused by weightlifting should push growth to INCREASED levels, as was shown with my coach's son.


http://www.trulyhuge.com/news/tips63iq.htm

http://www.madsci.org/posts/archives/jul2000/965096380.An.r.html

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Please read, then do searches, then read some more. The answers to all of the questions you've asked are already here.
 
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