Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If you're being sarcastic........stop and think about what you just said. Do you think one exception makes it a myth? come on, you know there's an exception to every rule.Originally posted by MetalFortress
My weightlifting coach is about 5'8 or 5'9. His wife is the same height. Their oldest son, Casey Burgener, is 6'1 and a world class olympic weightlifter who has been training since age 5.
Yeah, weightlifting stunts growth.
Exactly. While it may not be common, it is still could happen if you push yourself just a little bit too hard. It may just be coincidence, but most of the REALLY strong guys in my highschool who started lifting big weight in middleschool were like 5'8" and below. Doctors are cautious about having you lift huge weight when you're still growing, and they're not stupid for cautioning you either.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
If you're being sarcastic........stop and think about what you just said. Do you think one exception makes it a myth? come on, you know there's an exception to every rule.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's been scientifically proven that weightlifting doesn't stunt growth. Do you want to try to argue against scientific fact? Didn't think so. In fact, the extra growth hormone caused by weightlifting should push growth to INCREASED levels, as was shown with my coach's son.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
If you're being sarcastic........stop and think about what you just said. Do you think one exception makes it a myth? come on, you know there's an exception to every rule.