"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Weight-Lifting Starting Routine Question?

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I want to start weightlifting..but I don't know where to start.

First, I want to find out what I can push, and how many reps and sets I should be able to do. How do I find this out?

Second, I want to gain muscle in the arms, shoulders and chest. A little bit of leg wouldn't hurt either. I'm skinny.

Third, how often should I work out per week, and if I can't do that much in the week, should and how can I adjust my training to keep the same progress.

Fourth, how do I progress to heavier weights and/or more reps/sets?



That's about it. If someone could take the time to answer in detail...that'd be awesome!:woo:!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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read some of the other threads in Health and Fitness

your questions will all be answered. read up on eating properly also
 

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Docs said:
Second, I want to gain muscle in the arms, shoulders and chest. A little bit of leg wouldn't hurt either. I'm skinny.
Okay don juan player-boy, you're in my realm now, forget the arms/chest/shoulders beach muscle crap for the ladies, in H&F WE SQUAT AND PULL UNTIL OUR EARS BLEED AND WE PUKE ALL OVER THE GYM FLOOR. lol!

Just kidding. Good luck with it all. :) Train hard, eat hard and you'll get where you want to be. :)
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what would be a good schedule for optimal growth though...like wake up at __ eat breakfast at __, work out at __....any help would be greatly appreciated.
 

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Doe Boii said:
what would be a good schedule for optimal growth though...like wake up at __ eat breakfast at __, work out at __....any help would be greatly appreciated.
did you read my guide? it explains it pretty well.

WHEN you work out is when you feel best.. it doesn't really matter as long as your nutrition around the workout is good and your gym perfomance is sound.
 

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Okay don juan player-boy, you're in my realm now, forget the arms/chest/shoulders beach muscle crap for the ladies, in H&F WE SQUAT AND PULL UNTIL OUR EARS BLEED AND WE PUKE ALL OVER THE GYM FLOOR. lol!
I like it!! Feel the burnnnnn!!!

*reads*
 

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Warboss...I read your article, and it looks like a good start.

I'm just wondering, since I'm a newbie to weightlifting, should I still find the weight that I can do 5 reps at and start from there, or should I be focusing on something else first?
 
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