"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Weight-Lifting Starting Routine Question?

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I want to start weightlifting..but I don't know where to start.

First, I want to find out what I can push, and how many reps and sets I should be able to do. How do I find this out?

Second, I want to gain muscle in the arms, shoulders and chest. A little bit of leg wouldn't hurt either. I'm skinny.

Third, how often should I work out per week, and if I can't do that much in the week, should and how can I adjust my training to keep the same progress.

Fourth, how do I progress to heavier weights and/or more reps/sets?



That's about it. If someone could take the time to answer in detail...that'd be awesome!:woo:!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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read some of the other threads in Health and Fitness

your questions will all be answered. read up on eating properly also
 

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Docs said:
Second, I want to gain muscle in the arms, shoulders and chest. A little bit of leg wouldn't hurt either. I'm skinny.
Okay don juan player-boy, you're in my realm now, forget the arms/chest/shoulders beach muscle crap for the ladies, in H&F WE SQUAT AND PULL UNTIL OUR EARS BLEED AND WE PUKE ALL OVER THE GYM FLOOR. lol!

Just kidding. Good luck with it all. :) Train hard, eat hard and you'll get where you want to be. :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what would be a good schedule for optimal growth though...like wake up at __ eat breakfast at __, work out at __....any help would be greatly appreciated.
 

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what would be a good schedule for optimal growth though...like wake up at __ eat breakfast at __, work out at __....any help would be greatly appreciated.
did you read my guide? it explains it pretty well.

WHEN you work out is when you feel best.. it doesn't really matter as long as your nutrition around the workout is good and your gym perfomance is sound.
 

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Okay don juan player-boy, you're in my realm now, forget the arms/chest/shoulders beach muscle crap for the ladies, in H&F WE SQUAT AND PULL UNTIL OUR EARS BLEED AND WE PUKE ALL OVER THE GYM FLOOR. lol!
I like it!! Feel the burnnnnn!!!

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Warboss...I read your article, and it looks like a good start.

I'm just wondering, since I'm a newbie to weightlifting, should I still find the weight that I can do 5 reps at and start from there, or should I be focusing on something else first?
 
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