"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Right, so this weekend I went shoping for mothers day. There, while I was perusing a certian store, I saw a HB9. Now, I had seen her once before at my friends old school. So I approached and spoke to her.

Bla bla bla, turned it into a bit of a mini-date as we both went shopping and later for coffee.

Now, I wasn't really looking for any numbers, so I didn't close. Besides, I've got a girlfriend so it's not like I really wanted her # either. Just another calling expense.

But as I said my farewell, and turned around and walked three steps, she quickly called after me and whispered to me where she works. Like as though she wanted me to visit her.

*chuckles*

So now, a few days later, I'm thinking: she really does sound like she'd make a nice friend. ;-) So I've only seen this scene played out in the movies, but hell no I'm not looking there for guidance. Do I just walk into her department at lunch time and say I'm looking for her? Then proceed to say we're going for a cup of tea downstairs or what? :-/

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Depends on what kind of store she works in,if you're looking for an excuse to be there say "I wanted this product/service and since you work here i decided to let you give me a discount".
 
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Nah... accounting department at this building. :p Right next to the hospital. About 30 seconds away from my Gym.
 
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Nah... accounting department at this building. :p Right next to the hospital. About 30 seconds away from my Gym.
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Whoa whoa whoa,she works 30 seconds away from your gym. Ok just tell her to come work out with you,and after you work out you hit the sana,jaccuzi etc.
 
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Yeah, the gym's right accros the building. Great idea blink. But... go back a few squares. I'm not really sure how to act once I enter a building filled with accountats in bowties. Y'know...

Do I go to reception and say: "Hey, I'm her to see ..."?

or do I go to the third floor and poke around till I find her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Depends on what kind of store she works in,if you're looking for an excuse to be there say "I wanted this product/service and since you work here i decided to let you give me a discount".
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Excuse to be there? No can do, I don't make excuses. If anything, I'll be usually honest and tell her I dropped in to annoy her. :)
 
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You can say to a receptionist,"Hi could you page (name) for me" and then when she comes up from just ask her if she can go on a short walk. From there you get her number,call her up, get in a spa...you can take it from there.
Dont snope around,you may look desperate doing that.
It may actually look better if you stop by and she happens to be out,if thats the case just leave you number for her to call you(helps to filter out how much you mean to her,if you mean something she will call).
 
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kk, I'll go tomorrow just before lunch. :)
 
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