"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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week day lifestyle guide

d!ckmojo

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Yo dudes

haven't posted for a while~ but I still lurk around these boards, they are really great.

Anyway, I wrote up a bit of a lifestyle plan to get myself back into the rythym of life.

I've never been really good at establishing good habits and sticking to them, but hopefully I can make this plan work for me:

Monday
7:00 am Wake up, Drink 1 Litre water/black coffee, take supps (multivitamin, acai berry)
Weight Training 40 mins + Running 20 mins
8:00 am Breakfast Millet w/ walnuts, pepitas and goji berries + protein shake (50 % egg white + 50% GEMMA pea protein w/ rice milk)
9:00am – 1:00 pm Work, drink 1 Litre water/green tea
1:00 pm Lunch Chicken, Avocado, Lettuce, Rocket, Hard boiled egg, Tuna, Grated carrot salad
1:30 pm – 5:30 pm Work, drink 1 Litre water/green tea
6:00 pm Dinner Beef and Broccoli stir fry w/ capsicum
7:30 pm Play mixed Netball
9:00 pm Do Book-keeping, plan for the following day
9:30 Take supps (fish oil, tryptophan, he shou wu)
Facial Dermarolling and apply Copper Peptide serum
10:30 pm Bedtime

Tuesday
7:00 am Wake up, Drink 1 Litre water/black coffee, take supps (multivitamin, acai berry)
Yoga 15 mins + Meditation 15 mins + Qi Gong 15 mins + Self-reiki 15 mins
8:00 am Breakfast Millet w/ walnuts, pepitas and goji berries + protein shake (egg/pea)
9:00 am ~ do 4 hours work, drink 1 Litre water/green tea
Lunch 1:00 pm Chicken, Avocado, Lettuce, Rocket, Hard boiled egg, Tuna, Grated carrot salad
1:30pm – 5:30 pm Work, drink 1 Litre water/green tea
Dinner: Steak + Steamed vegetables
6:30 pm Kung Fu class 1 hour
9:00 pm Do Book-keeping, plan for next day
9:30 pm Take supps (fish oil, tryptophan, he shou wu), Facial Brushing and apply Lacsal serum
10:30 pm Bed time

Wednesday
7:00 am Wake up, Drink 1 Litre water/black coffee, take supps (multivitamin, acai berry)
Weight training 40 mins + Running 20 mins
8:00 am Breakfast Millet w/ walnuts, pepitas and goji berries + protein shake (egg/pea)
Go to my Office
9:00 am Work 4 hours, drink 1 litre water/green tea
1:00 pm Lunch Chicken, Avocado, Lettuce, Rocket, Hard boiled egg, Tuna, Grated carrot salad
1:30 pm 5:30 pm Work 4 hours, drink 1 L water/green tea
6:00 pm Dinner Beef and Broccoli stir fry w/ capsicum
7:30 pm Informal physical Recreational activity eg. Indoor Rock Climbing
9:00 pm Do Book-keeping, plan for then following day
9:30 pm Take supps (fish oil, tryptophan, he shou wu)
Facial Dermarolling and apply copper peptide serum
10:30 pm Bed time

Thursday
7:00 am Wake up, Drink 1 Litre water/black coffee, take supps (multivitamin, acai berry)
Yoga 15 mins + Meditation 15 mins + Qi Gong 15 mins + Self-reiki 15 mins
8:00 am Millet w/ walnuts, pepitas and goji berries + protein shake (egg/pea)
9:00 am ~ do 4 hours work, drink 1 Litre water/green tea
Lunch 1:00 pm Chicken, Avocado, Lettuce, Rocket, Hard boiled egg, Tuna, Grated carrot salad
1:30pm – 5:30 pm Work, drink 1 Litre water/green tea
Dinner: Steak + Steamed vegetables
6:30 pm Kung Fu class 1 hour
9:00 pm Do Book-keeping, plan for next day
9:30 pm Take supps (fish oil, tryptophan, he shou wu), Facial Brushing and apply Lacsal serum
10:30 pm Bed time

Friday: Same as Wednesday


Hrmmm. What do you think~ doable? enjoyable? any advice?

Thanks guys
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Taviii

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Sounds very good, but don't you socialize? or a little time for yourself?

It looks very efficient and fun but also a little routine-ish...
 

d!ckmojo

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Yeah I can socialise on the weekend ^^
Ideally my strategey will be to invite new girls out for action dates on wednesday nights and friday nights~ maybe go bowling or something on friday nights, and because I don't have work the next day, we could hit the bars after that and see what happens ;)

But I think I do need structure and routine in my life right now. I've been a free spirit for too long, and to achieve my goals, I will need to apply effort in a more planned, persistent way I should probably suppose.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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Good food choices, but seems light on calories...
how much do you weigh?
 
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